Emotional Control

Different Techniques to Control Parents —By: Mike and Debi Pearl, July 2003

...Children (as well as adults) throw fits as a means of controlling the actions of others. Your daughter screams and runs away because it works in reducing the pain...


Fear of Bees —By: Michael Pearl, May 2002

Dear Pearls,

Please Help. My 3-year-old has developed a fear of bees. One day a few flew close to her head and scared her. She was so scared that night that she would not go near her bed.

Category: Emotional Control

One for the Money —By: Michael Pearl, February 1997

When we travel, teaching seminars, Deb and I enjoy observing the many different families, each with it’s own unique personality.


Thankfulness —By: Shalom Pearl Brand, June 2007

My husband is a mechanic, and in his line of work he meets all kinds of different people, because everybody needs their car worked on at one time or another. There are at least two kinds of people, the thankful and the unthankful.


The Folly of Fairness —By: Michael Pearl, July 1996

There is a universal tendency to try to make life fair. We tend to think of legislated fairness as equality, when in fact it is inequality. This is so ingrained in us that we equate fairness with justice.


The Volley Ball Bawler —By: Michael Pearl, September 1995

As the father left the volley ball court headed for the house, his little four-year-old daughter began to scream.

Category: Emotional Control

The Will To Dominate —By: Michael Pearl, September 2000

The following article deals with a very important subject that we have touched on before but never discussed in detail—a child’s will to dominate. I chose this letter because it so clearly represents the many letters we...