Emotional Control

Different Techniques to Control Parents

...Children (as well as adults) throw fits as a means of controlling the actions of others. Your daughter screams and runs away because it works in reducing the pain...

By: Mike and Debi Pearl
Date: July 2003
Topics: Emotional Control, Screaming, Art of Training

Fear of Bees

Dear Pearls,

Please Help. My 3-year-old has developed a fear of bees. One day a few flew close to her head and scared her. She was so scared that night that she would not go near her bed.

By: Michael Pearl
Date: May 2002
Topics: Emotional Control

One for the Money

When we travel, teaching seminars, Deb and I enjoy observing the many different families, each with it’s own unique personality.

By: Michael Pearl
Date: February 1997
Topics: Girls, Family Interest, Emotional Control

Thankfulness

My husband is a mechanic, and in his line of work he meets all kinds of different people, because everybody needs their car worked on at one time or another. There are at least two kinds of people, the thankful and the unthankful.

By: Shalom Pearl Brand
Date: June 2007
Topics: Attitudes, Art of Training, Emotional Control, Girls, Influences, Parent/Child Relations, Self Control, Toddlers, Whining, Family Interest

The Folly of Fairness

There is a universal tendency to try to make life fair. We tend to think of legislated fairness as equality, when in fact it is inequality. This is so ingrained in us that we equate fairness with justice.

By: Michael Pearl
Date: July 1996
Topics: Attitudes, Emotional Control

The Volley Ball Bawler

As the father left the volley ball court headed for the house, his little four-year-old daughter began to scream.

By: Michael Pearl
Date: September 1995
Topics: Emotional Control

The Will To Dominate

The following article deals with a very important subject that we have touched on before but never discussed in detail—a child’s will to dominate. I chose this letter because it so clearly represents the many letters we...

By: Michael Pearl
Date: September 2000
Topics: Attitudes, Challenging Authority, Emotional Control, Toddlers

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